LOVE

I was in Naga city when I realized that I need to write a new blog.

When we talk about love, it is one of the words that are very hard to define. There are many signs that pushed me to blog about love and I want to explain it as my blog itself.

Love as a hurting formula

I had a friend, she has a boyfriend for 3 years and I find it very wonderful. As all relationships, they encountered a problem. When they reach college, the girl suspects the boy of having another woman. That situation hurt my friend, she tearfully tell us the story. I felt pity on her, she loves him very much yet she finds no reason that she deserves to be hurt.

One of my family members is married for almost 25 years, they already encountered many problems but they both surpassed it. It is just that on their 25^th year, they decided that what they had been is enough. They both wanted to give up because they are now hurting one another.

Back when I was in my third year, one of my classmates has a relationship to another classmate of ours, whom is a good friend of mine. They are always sweet that time, but one day they had some misunderstanding, the boy almost lost his mind and cried. He is extremely hurt.

Love is a game

            She flirt with guys that are good looking, yet unknowingly, she fell in love on one of them. She showed her love to him, and he also does to her. But she figured out that the guy is on another relationship and she is someone he used as a toy.

Love knows no distance

            My high school friend went to Canada with her family and leaves her boyfriend here at the Philippines. But even though they are thousand miles away, they still showed their love and trust on their system of communication, the Facebook. They are still very sweet and could classify as a perfect couple.

Love grows

            My classmates when I was in high school were adventurous, yet two of them are more responsible. We had our outing after our graduation and I thought that they were already together (as everyone notices) but last week, I’ve read that they are just 11 months this month! And that what I’ve realized is that they really want to make sure that they will plant a good seed before they will take good care of it as a plant!

Love is not just for couples

            Last traslacion, I saw an old woman carrying her grandchild, they are both worn out and I could classify them as beggars. As what I’ve thought, they were really are. They ask for alms from some people in the street, a lady gave them some money. The old woman rushed into a bakery and bought food for her grandchild who received the food with a smile.

            At home, you could find love, from your family, at society from your friends, at school from your teachers. We just have to open our eyes and listen carefully.

The battle between your special someone and friendship

            Other says that your special someone is greater than friendship, others, says that it was different and reversed. But, BF/GF relationship and friendship cannot exist without the presence of another. So if you’re friends or your BF/GF wants you to choose between them, you better choose them both, for if they are real to you, they will understand and love the people you love.

Love that lasts

            Back in Naga city, I saw an old couple walking the street holding each other’s hand.(or better known as Public Display of Affection). But for me, it says love knows no age and will lasts. By marriage, people vowed in front of our Lord to be together forever and it is wonderful that an old couple shows us that of all the problems we could encounter, we must not give up love.